The Joy of Orgasms

This section is all about ejaculation control exercises and multiple orgasms. In Tantra Yoga you learn to hold off ejaculation for as long as you can and experience multiple orgasms.

The idea is to get close to ejaculation, then stop and move up close again. It requires a fair amount of joyful practice where you'll cum many times and watch carefully how it all happens.

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing, even though it may appear so. Orgasm comes first, ejaculation follows, but not always. It can happen without ejaculation.

With experience you will be able to tell the difference and control it. You need frequent practice to get good at it. Variety will keep your interest.

Gateway to the Here and Now

Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm, but it is virtually untouched. As you master the tantric practice and higher energy movement, you begin to view your Lingam (penis, joystick) as an instrument of deeper understanding and deeper love connection with your partner.

Your sensitivity and awareness is profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking. You float into an expanded state of consciousness, which allows you to achieve "multiple" and "full-body orgasms".

Ancient Tradition

In the Tantric tradition, orgasm has a different value than in other cultural approaches to sexuality. Eliminating the striving toward orgasm enhances the pleasure to be derived from all aspects of sexual experience.

Some practitioners of Tantric sex aim to delay orgasm during sexual intercourse by remaining for long periods of time at the pre-orgasmic state. According to some advocates of Tantric sex, such as Rajneesh, practising Tantric sex without orgasm will eventually lead to orgasmic feelings spreading out to all of conscious experience.

Some current advocates of Tantric sex claim that in Western culture, sexuality is put in the service of orgasm in a way that reduces the ability to have intense pleasure during each moment of sexual experience.

Ejaculation Control

Why is ejaculation control so important? Once a man has reached the point in his sexual development where he begins to understand that just "getting off" isn't satisfying him or his partner, he craves for more. This is a natural desire. In his heart he knows there is more, but often doesn't know how to achieve these higher pleasures.

Tantra teaches that for a man to achieve the highest ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he needs to learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy (Kundalini) up his spine to the higher centres of his brain. When he masters the ability to move his Kundalini energy up his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels that people only dream of.

The goal of this tantric experience is not merely ejaculation but rather a fuller experience of the journey leading up to that eventual orgasm (i.e. "the Finale"). Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery thereby prolonging and possibly increasing the sexual encounters that they do have. Ejaculation is not the immediate or overall goal of this exercise, although it can be viewed as a pleasant and welcome side effect.

As you learn to master the movement of your sexual energy in your body, you can as a result control your ejaculation. At this point you are free to make love or play in wet clothes without feeling the pressure to ejaculate.

Sensual Wet Clothing

You may want to enjoy this in the bath. Some loose fitting clothes feel wonderfully sensual all over your body when you do this in the water. A soft poncho or hiking cape would be ideal as you have room to play inside.